Imagine she's lying beneath you.
Same position you've used a hundred times. Same bed. Same woman.
Except this time something is different.
Her breathing changes before you've built any rhythm.
Her body opens in a way it never has before.
Her hands pull you closer instead of waiting for it to be over. And when she finally gets there it moves through her entire body. Not a quiet finish. Something that shakes her.
You didn't do anything new. You did the same position. The right way.
But here's the problem that men face with this position.
The information on how to actually do this correctly the angle, the technique, the timing, the motion is almost impossible to find in one place.
You get fragments. Half-answers. Vague advice that sounds good and delivers nothing.
Most men piece together whatever they can from whatever sources they can find and hope for the best.
That ends today.
I am so excited to announce my brand new book — Missionary Mastery — the one complete, no-filler resource that brings everything together in one place.
The science. The technique. The variations. The psychology.
Everything you need to go from going through the motions to owning this position so completely that she starts requesting it by name.
Here's something most people don't know about missionary.
It is one of the oldest and most instinctive forms of human intimacy that exists. Evidence of face-to-face intimacy appears in Old Babylonian art from 2000 BCE, in Greek and Roman sources, in the Kama Sutra, and across cultures on every continent.
The name itself only entered mainstream use in the early 1970s. The position is ancient. And it has survived every era because when it is done correctly, nothing else replicates what it produces.
The numbers back this up completely. Missionary consistently ranks among the top two favourite positions worldwide.
Women rank it second for achieving multiple finishes during intimacy. Both partners — regardless of gender — rate it the single best position for emotional connection and the most powerful overall experience.
This is not a position people tolerate. This is a position people return to because done well, it delivers something no other position quite matches.
And almost no man has ever been taught the correct version.
Three things you can start doing differently tonight:
1. Use a pillow. Place a firm pillow beneath her hips before you begin. This single adjustment changes the angle completely and immediately redirects pressure to where it matters most. It costs nothing and changes everything.
2. Stop thrusting and start rocking. Most men treat missionary as a single movement — in and out, repeat until finished. There are actually three distinct movements in missionary and they do completely different things. Rocking creates the kind of sustained contact that builds toward a full-body finish. Thrusting alone is the least effective of the three.
3. Shift two inches forward. From classic missionary, move your entire body upward by two to three inches. This small shift is the foundation of the most research-backed technique in this guide — and it has been linked in controlled clinical trials to a 56 percent increase in women reaching that moment during intercourse.
One pillow. One shift. One change in motion.
That is how different tonight could feel.
Everything. In one place. Ready tonight.
Love, Dr. Emma Blake 💋